Sunday, September 8, 2013
Asaram Bapu's arrest on the charge of raping a minor
girl is the latest in a series of sex scandals involving India's sadhus
and godmen. V. Kumara Swamy and Sonia Sarkar on why gurus often get away with their sexcapades
Asaram Bapu has never shied away from talking about sex. There are
YouTube videos that show him dispensing sex advice to his devotees.
"Don't have sex during amavasya, purnima, Shivaratri or Holi. A child
conceived on these days will be born handicapped," he warns. "Even if a
child is not conceived, intercourse on this day will lead to impotence
and the man could face several other problems," he adds helpfully.
But lest his devotees should despair, he tells them that there is
also a right time to do it. "If a child is conceived between 12.30 and
2.30 during the day, he or she will go on to become a very intelligent
person."
There's more. A booklet meant for his followers says that
masturbation or homosexuality in men leads to wastage of energy, thus
making them physically and mentally weak.
Unfortunately, the man who gave out such "valuable" sex advice is now
embroiled in an unsavoury sex case — arrested by the Jodhpur police for
allegedly raping a 15-year-old girl in his ashram.
Of course, this isn't the first time criminal charges have been
levelled at Asaram Bapu. In 2008, two young boys died in his ashram in
Motera in Gujarat. But his trusted lieutenants say the charges against
him are all fabricated.
"There has been a conspiracy to malign him for many years," says
Asaram Bapu's media manager Sunil Wankhede. According to him, Asaram
doesn't have any sexual desires as he is not a "common man". "He is a
sant (saint). And saints don't have sexual desires," he asserts.
Though gurus or godmen in India have huge followings and are usually
considered holy and utterly blameless, allegations of sexual misconduct
and depravity on their part crop up with regularity.
Take Swami Nithyananda of the Dhyanapeeta Charitable Trust in Bidadi,
near Bangalore. In 2010, local television channels aired footage that
showed the swami in a compromising position with a Tamil actress. The
same year, Aarthi Rao, a former follower of Swami Nithyananda, filed a
complaint with the criminal investigation department, Bangalore,
alleging sexual harassment by him.
Nithyananda was arrested but freed in
53 days. The case is now before the court.
"In India, godmen wield a lot of power over their devotees, which is a
heady feeling. They have the money power and influence. So they begin
to believe they can get away with anything," says Rao.
Rao, an engineering graduate of Birla Institute of Technology and
Science, Pilani, and a software engineer, joined Swami Nithyananda's
ashram and even changed her name to Ma Nithyananda Premeshwari Mayi.
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SEX AND THE SWAMI: Asaram Bapu
Nithyananda
Illustration: Onkarnath Bhattacharya
She also signed a "non-disclosure agreement" that had a clause saying
that the existence of such an agreement could not be revealed to
anybody. It went on to state that the programme could involve tantric
secrets associated with male and female ecstasy, nudity, access to
visual images, graphic visual depictions, and descriptions of nudity and
sexual activity.
Followers being sworn to secrecy is a common practice of godmen. In
2006, Vikas Joshi alias Swami Vikasanand was arrested with more than 60
CDs full of sleaze material. An influential guru in the Jabalpur area,
he was with three women, one of them a teenager, when he was picked up
from a city hotel.
"He had told the women who were close to him that any revelation of
their sexual activities could have adverse consequences for their
families or themselves," says a Madhya Pradesh police official who
investigated the case.
Called "Saahab" by his followers, Vikasanand used to give pravachans
(sayings) and bless his devotees wearing Ray-Ban glasses. "He claimed
that he had tantric powers to cure every human misery. And his devotees,
many of them well-educated, believed that," recalls the official.
Though most of his women followers refused to testify in court,
Vikasanand was convicted by a Jabalpur fast track court in 2010 and is
now in jail.
In another case involving Delhi-based Shreemurath Dwivedi alias
Ichchadhari Sant Swami Bhimanand Maharaj Chitrakoot Wale, six women,
including two airhostesses, were arrested for allegedly running a
prostitution racket from his ashram.
So why do so many "godmen" get embroiled in sex scandals?
Experts say that it is the blind faith of their devotees that enables
these "gurus" to influence them. "We Indians are great believers in
miracles and feel that somebody can get us out of our miseries. This is
the prime reason we fall for these godmen," says Prabir Ghosh, general
secretary, Science and Rationalists' Association of India, Calcutta.
Sociologist Dipankar Gupta agrees that godmen prey upon the
vulnerability of their followers, especially women. "Once the women are
drawn in, it is easy for these godmen to force themselves upon them," he
says. But he adds that sometimes, these sexual relationships are
"consensual".
Naturally, the devotees dismiss all such allegations. Wankhede, for
one, claims that Asaram Bapu never had sexual desires even when he was
young. He also insists that Asaram's ashram is absolutely safe for
women. "Men and women don't even sit together here," he says.
Then why did Asaram call the 15-year-old girl to his room? "Don't
fathers meet their daughters?" he retorts. "To him, all younger women
are his daughters and older women his mothers."
Asaram's devotees are equally insistent that the guru has been
falsely accused. Take Rukmini Devi, who has come all the way from
Kurukshetra in Haryana to pick up ayurvedic medicines for her ailing
husband from Asaram's sprawling ashram on Vande Mataram Marg in Delhi's
ridge reserve forest. She says all allegations against her beloved
"Bapuji" are baseless. "Bapuji has been trapped by his enemies who are
jealous of his popularity," says Devi.
Experts say, however, the belief that so-called godmen are above
sexual impulses is totally false. "Their sexual desire is no less than
that of an ordinary man," says andrologist Sudhakar Krishnamurti.
Others say that so many incidents of rape or sexual assault by godmen
happen because they deprive themselves of a natural sex life. "Since
they don't engage in self-stimulation or masturbation, they are left
with no alternative but to molest or rape women to satisfy their sexual
urge," says Mumbai-based sexologist Prakash Kothari.
Not only that, many godmen visit andrologists to deal with their
sexual problems. Krishnamurti, who is also a member of the Sexual Health
Committee, World Health Organization, says that the most common problem
with godmen is erectile dysfunction. He also says that many come to him
wanting to know how they can "perform better" with multiple partners.
Kothari asserts that some of these godmen also take drugs to enhance
their sexual prowess. "Many of them confess that they want drugs to be
able to perform better at sex," he says.
Shantum Seth, who had once accused a godman (who died a few years
ago) of indulging in sexual misconduct, says that there is nothing wrong
with them having a sexual urge, but that they should have a responsible
sexual life. "Godmen should set an example by behaving responsibly as
there are millions who follow them," Seth asserts.
Some godmen get away with their unpleasant acts simply because they
enjoy political clout. "With the support of politicians, these godmen
get a space to play. That's the irony," says sociologist Gupta.
It will be interesting to see if Asaram Bapu's case grinds on and
fades into irrelevance. But one thing is certain, as long as these
"holy" men enjoy the blind faith of thousands of followers, it will
always be easy for them to indulge in unholy practices.
Scandal sheet
2013, Sehore (MP)
Mahendra Giri alias Tunnu Baba,65, arrested on charges of raping a 24-year-old woman.
2013, Jodhpur
Asaram Bapu arrested on charges of rape.
2010, Delhi
Shreemurath Dwivedi alias Ichchadhari Sant Swami Bhimanand Maharaj
Chitrakoot Wale arrested for running a prostitution racket from his
ashram.
2010, Bangalore
Swami Nithyananda arrested on charges of sexual abuse.
2009, Chennai
Kanchipuram Devanathan of Machaesa Perumal temple accused of sexually exploiting devotees. Arrested.
2006, Jabalpur
Vikas Joshi alias Swami Vikasanand arrested for sexual abuse of young girls and making obscene films. Serving jail sentence.
2005, Junagadh
Priest of Swaminarayan temple Bhaktiswarup and three others arrested for role in alleged sex scandal.
1994, Tiruchirapalli
Swami Premananda sentenced to life imprisonment for rape of 13 inmates of ashram and a murder.
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